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Sex Agenarians

A year or so ago, Dr Rajeev Gupta, a Ludhiana-based psychiatrist practising for the past 20 years, was faced with an unexpected complaint. It was from a wizened grandmother who had come to get her grandson examined. But she also had another complaint. “She took me aside and said, ‘Doctorsaab, unko hoshiari nahi aati hai’. […]

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Desire’s Obstacle Course

Male Climacteric: A group of symptoms faced by men over 60. These may be impotency, general fatigue, poor concentration and irritability and are attributed to low levels of free testosterone. But with testosterone-replacement therapy, this can be corrected. Menopause: The beginning of old-age problems for most women. The vaginal passage becomes smaller, lubrication can become […]

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Understand her needs

I am a 29-year-old man and have a very thin penis but I want to increase my sexual ability. Is it advisable for me to take testosterone tablets? I read on the Internet that testosterone isn’t healthy. Thinness and thickness of the penis has no bearing on a person’s sexual power. It is the skill […]

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Do not fall prey to phone sex

Of late Sumana has been receiving some strange calls. When she answers the phone, she can only hear heavy breathing and moaning. Naive Sumana did not realise the caller is a sex abuser and he is using her through the phone for sexual gratification. The obscene phone caller is invariably a male, and the victim […]

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Let yourself go and enjoy

It’s been six months that I’m married. Though my husband has tried various positions for variety so far, I haven’t had orgasm. How and when does orgasm happen? What is the G-Spot and where is it located? My husband is more interested in oral sex while I loathe it. Now he is more interested in […]

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Passions & Desires

“You are a beast obsessed with sex.  You have no interest in sitting and talking to me. You men can think of nothing but sex,” accused Kavitha, when her husband made overtures for sex. It is not true that every man has more sex drive than a woman, but it does seem to have gotten […]

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Focus on foreplay

I am a 27-year-old male, married for the last one year but I am still not able to have sex with my wife. I get good erection but my wife’s vagina is very small. During the time of intercourse it becomes absolutely impossible to penetrate. I have tried a lot of lubricants but they don’t […]

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Create a new body image

“Doctor, please advise my wife. She does not undress for sex. She does not even allow me to switch on the bedroom light. It is like having sex blindfolded,” lamented Raghu. I looked askance at his wife Renu. With trepidation she blurted out, “Sir, I am so ashamed of myself because of a host of […]

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